I was asked today if I wanted to have kids because the individual thought I didnt want any since I dont have any yet and it made me think long and hard about my future... I always saw myself getting married in this grand multimillion dollar wedding etc.. but I always woke up before my future plans were put in motion.... in other words I never saw me having kids in the hospital etc... I have thought about this long and hard and I want to be successful more than wanting to start a family now... I am currently dating an older man who already has kids, currently a young adult female age 18 and an adolescent male child age 8. He thought his procreating days werre over and he had his mind set but when he met me he changed his tone... I always wanted to adopt, especially after I saw Antoine Fisher.... so now I am really thinking about my future... 30, NO KIDS AND NOT MARRIED..... WOW.... I have had a lot of things on my mind but Ill figure something out as I get closer to my bday!!!! TURN UP DIRTY 30!!!!